The End of Days - Yours, Mayan, and Ours

As you may already know, tomorrow is the last day of life on Earth as foretold by the Mayans. This is not to say that our spirits won’t continue to exist on some ethereal plane, or that our mortal frames won’t continue to exist as space debris after our planet explodes, but life as we know it – with our souls firmly rooted in our breasts and our appendages all attached and uncharred - is about to end. Let us all take a moment and flip the freak out.

 AAAAAHHHHHOLYCRAPWEASELS!!!

Now, pull yourself together. We’ve only got a day to live, and daggumit, we’re not going to spend it rocking in the corner and sucking our thumbs. It’s time to grab Life by the stretchy part of the elbows and headbutt its teeth! Let’s all spend this last day doing everything we always wanted to do, like breaking windows and setting things on fire! Who’s with me?!

Wow, you guys really didn’t need that much convincing. I was just kidding.

Although it would no doubt be fun to hurl an office chair through a giant pane of glass Die Hard style, all the real things most of us want to accomplish can’t be done in a day. Or a week. Or a month, even. One could argue that we are still young, and it’s normal to not have accomplished everything we’d like to by this point in our lives, but I would like to argue that if we’re looking at percentages, the Mayan statisticians say our lives are 99.9999% over. And although we’ve known about the world’s impending doom for several years now, we are still unprepared. Sure, we meant to do all those things on our bucket lists, but the television was on, and what were we suppose to do, not watch it? Oh, if only our encyclopedic knowledge of Jersey Shore could save us from certain destruction instead of help usher in our untimely demise!

I am, of course, calling myself out first and foremost. If there’s one thing I’ve learned too late, and I’m not quite certain there is, it’s that I can’t sit idly back and expect great things to happen. I can’t reasonably expect anything to happen unless I set something in motion. For example, if I want a new job, I have to apply for it and then physically wrestle into submission every candidate in the waiting room before the interview. Also, shouting “I want to be an astronaut!” doesn’t have any weight while I’m watching Apollo 13, but people would be inclined to take me seriously if I was shouting it out of a rocket window.

“Mission control to Nathan. Do not open that rocket window.

You’re going to kill everybody. Over.”

I have to be proactive, and I have to think long-term. I have realized this in retrospect several times, and if history is as tenacious as everyone says it is, I will keep realizing it. Well, until a race of angry lizard humanoids eradicate us from the Earth tomorrow (Did the Mayans say how the world’s ending? I’m just throwing out some guesses here).

So how did I get where I’m currently at, reassessing my decisions while holding an umbrella in a futile attempt to protect myself from tomorrow’s forecast of ‘cloudy with a high chance of torrential buffalos’? I remember one of my teachers in the youth program at church explaining this concept on the blackboard by drawing life as a horizontal line. The line would abruptly slant upward and downward, and the crook of each angle represented a decision made. It was to demonstrate the impact of righteous and unrighteous decisions, but its application spreads to all aspects of life. Practiced violin for an hour? Line slants up. Used that hour to chase squirrels instead? Line slants down. Every decision sets you on a certain trajectory, and you can follow that decision tree backwards to find out how you became a concert violinist or a lunatic with a dead squirrel collection.

I’m going to love you and squeeze you and call you George.

…George, get back here! Why won’t you love me?! George?!

Sometimes it is easier to see life as a daily vignette instead of a seamless movie with a beginning, middle, and end. And choosing to look at it the easy way is, well…easy. And that’s how I find myself apprehensive on the eve of the day gravity dramatically increases and all our organs get crushed under the weight of our own bones (Possibly. Again, the Mayans were pretty vague).

So, I’ve chased a few squirrels. But should the Mayans be wrong – they have never lied to me before – and I wake up on the morning of December 22 still clinging to existence, maybe I’ll try a little harder. Maybe I’ll do something productive that could have bearing on my future. Or maybe I’ll just take a breather, because realizing I need to be better is half the battle, and I just escaped the Mayan rapture, and hey look the television’s on!

So I guess what I’m trying to say is, “Let us eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die!”

Or, one day soon we’ll wake up fat, hungover, and disappointed. Whichever.

An Idiot's Guide to Moving for Dummies and Idiots

When I was little I always wanted to move. I was born in the house my parents still live in (I mean, not literally - Alabama has hospitals, you know), and I was jealous of my brothers who switched houses several times before I arrived. But now that I am older, I am thankful for that stability in my younger years. I made up for it by moving a gajillion times after high school as if I was I on the run from the law and my real name is Beezow Doo-Doo ZopittyBop-Bop-Bop.

Ha-ha! What a silly thought!

I have found, however, that moving is terrible. It requires a lot of hassle and manual labor, two of my least favorite things outside of Lenny Kravitz and the thought of starving kittens. Each time I moved to a new apartment I would loudly declare, “I am never leaving! This is where I am going to die!” But, as the saying goes ‘nothing mold can stay’ (I have lived in a couple of crappy apartments), and six months later I would find myself moving into a new apartment and shouting empty promises about being buried under the floorboards. But I mean it this time, despite the fact that my rent is about to considerably increase and that my upstairs neighbor snores like Godzilla and has trained her two dogs in the lost art of canine tapdance.

I felt like I should do something with all this acquired moving wisdom, so I decided to write another informative guide for the uninformed, gullible masses. But don't feel pressured to buy anything now. Enjoy these free excerpts*!

*Reading these excerpts legally constitutes a sale.

If you are reading this, you have already been billed.

from Chapter 1: Looking for a New Apartment

Searching for a new place to live can be daunting. Luckily there are many fantastic resources online to aid in your search, but none of them are Craigslist. All housing on Craigslist is riddled with peepholes and old syringes. If you don’t believe me, I suggest purchasing my first guide here and then returning to this chapter.

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Welcome back. Congratulations on narrowly escaping what was described as a “One bedroom basement apartment. Very quiet. In fact, no one can hear you scream." Now you can move on to more reputable search sites to find your new Shangri-la. These other sites are not bereft of misgivings, however. You have to be careful of the ads’ wording. I’ve never seen ad copy that hasn’t stated it was “nestled in a picturesque forest” or “nestled in a pristine valley”. It doesn’t matter where the apartment complex is located, it is nestled there. In reality the only thing you will be nestled in is the greedy tendrils of a 12 month unbreakable lease.

The apartment complexes’ names are also designed to mislead you. They all have flowery, scenic names that can’t reasonably be backed up. Can you see an air freshener hanging from the rearview mirror of your neighbors ’77 Skylark? You must live in “Pine View”. Is there a hole in the parking lot that fills up on rainy days that the neighbor kids play in? Welcome to “Lakeside Crest”. Do the cracks in your bathtub sprout mushrooms? That’s “Fun Gus’s Gardens”, and you really should have figured that one out.

Nestled in a magical grove of oaks, make your new home at beautiful Riverfront Terrace!

from Chapter 4: Packing up Your Apartment

The first thing you’re going to want to do is buy lots of packing boxes and neatly organize your belongings. Resist that urge. That would take time and effort, and I’m going to show you an easier way.

Step 1: Haphazardly throw all your belongings into a pile on your apartment floor, excluding pets. If you have any experience ransacking or pillaging, this will come in handy.

Step 2: Douse that pile with your favorite liquid, just as long as your favorite liquid is highly flammable and does not require a special license to purchase.

Step 3: Light a match.

Step 4: Collect your $17 in insurance money. Although you owned a lot of stuff, let’s face it, most of it was worthless, and you could really use that 17 bucks to care for all the burn wounds you just sustained.

from Chapter 8: Moving to a New State

If you have been following this guide closely, you are now wanted for arson, insurance fraud, and something called first degree pre-meditated animal larceny, so you’ll probably want to move to a new state where people won’t recognize you. Georgia, for example.  This has its own set of obstacles, because you will now have to get a new driver’s license. Depending on what state you’re in, you may want to allow plenty of time for your field trip to the DMV. If you want to be first in line, I suggest camping overnight in the parking lot and ambushing the tents of anyone who has a similar idea. Again, this is where your experience in ransacking and pillaging will come in handy.

Please remember that to qualify for a new license you will have to bring an original copy of your birth certificate, a utility bill addressed to your new residence, your social security card, a vial of your blood, a receipt from the last time you ate at Applebee's, and an in-state church attendance record notarized by the Pope, regardless of your religious affiliation. The state doesn’t actually want to give you a driver’s license, but should you succeed in accumulating these items, they are regretfully required to issue you one.

The people who work at the DMV are notoriously surly, so I like to butter them up with compliments as soon as I step up to their counter. Admittedly, this has never worked because all my compliments are, “Yo girl! You smell like biscuits!” It is my hope that one day my assigned worker will 1) be a female, and 2) accept that compliment in the spirit in which it was intended.

When it comes time to take a picture for your new ID, you will want to mentally prepare yourself, because this photo will haunt you for a minimum of 5 years, and perhaps much longer should you be wanted for a crime (which you are) and the news people splatter it all over the television (which they will). I like to practice this mantra over and over in my head as I’m waiting for the camera’s snap: “Don’t look like a felon. Don’t look high. Don’t look like a felon. Don’t look high.”

 Crap.

from Chapter 15: Dieing There

So now you're all settled into your new apartment. I am happy that you have benefited from the knowledge gleaned during my many painstaking experiences. Now all that is left is to hunker down and wait for death. And should our paths ever cross, say, during a monster truck rally or federal court, I will happily clasp your hand, dear reader, and thank you for purchasing my book, and then remind you that moving is awful and you swore you would never do it again.

Also, no refunds.